So summer is here and L.O.V.E. is in the air. Everyone is looking for that “RIGHT-NOW” person or even ready for a permanent lover.
Lately a lot of people are wondering where to find SingleWomen/SingleMen (i.e. http://www.thisisyourconscience.com/?p=2317 and http://www.followthel.com/2010/07/goodies-successful-black-women-are.html ), so we’ve sort of established how to get over this (i.e. jus approach /be yourself/hope for the best)...Let’s move on shall we.
You’ve found that special someone, changed your status on FB to IN A RELATIONSHIP, and ready for a lifetime of lllooooooooooovvveeeee…BUT WAIT!!!!! How do you make sure you go back to being a SW/SM??? Here are some tips that have help me and a lot of my non SW/SM make a relationship work:
1) Before you get in any kind of relationship, make sure you’ve had “ME TIME” and know yourself…I mean REALLY know yourself!!! You’ve taken the time to work on yourself and ready for love!
2) COMMUNICATION!!!!! I CAN’T EXPRESS HOW IMPORTANT THIS IS. If you can’t talk about anything with your significant other , rough waters ahead! Now with communication, it doesn’t mean yell/nag at the other person to get your point across; it’s really about listening/hearing/understanding where the other person is coming from/what they’re really trying to say. Men and women have 2 very different ways of communicating and understanding that you are different is def going to help you out!
WOMEN: don’t expect him to know what you’re thinking or how you feel…TELL him in a reasonable manner!
3) Be honest…not rude, just honest
4) Be open minded…a couple that grows together stays together. Find new things to get into, if you’re in Toronto, right now there’s always something to do…and a lot of them are FREE!!!
5) Show the love and never forget to express to your man/lady how much you appreciate them <3
I’m only telling you what’s been working for me (10 yrs strong) may not work for you for all but may help Now go kiddies…get that love and keep it, cherish it!!!!!
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